Have you ever thought that you might be holding your life in your own hands 
as if it were a ball of modeling clay which you are always shaping and developing according to your thoughts and wishes? Have you ever considered that all of your thoughts and wishes can almost always be positive? Imagine your life being almost always positive 
simply because you chose it to be so. The way I see it, you are evolving from moment to moment 
and you have the power to manifest your life into exactly what you want it to be. Your life is a very creative process at work. Worrying about what others think about you blocks this creative process and stops you in your evolutionary tracks. It is a waste of your time and of your precious life. Worrying is 'de'constructive. Focusing on developing your life is 'con'structive and very much worth your time.
Having been a fashion model most of my life, I know first hand how the modeling world is riddled with rejection
. Models worry all the time what others think about them. They worry they are not good enough 
and that people won't like them. This detracts from their personality and style. It wears on them and distracts them and takes their energy. Some models will try to change who they are and become who they think others want them to be. When they do this they have just cloaked themselves with falsity and pretense. Now people have a reason not to like them 
and so the models have just proved themselves correct.
Why should we stop worrying about what others think of us? Because worrying only exacerbates the situation; once you start worrying you start to see all sorts of things to worry about. The worrying then starts to escalate with no end in sight. It is up to you to control your worrying and you do this by directing your attention to what you think is best about a situation. This will strength you, empower you and stop the worrying. Also, having a true sense and deep feeling of gratitude will diminish your worrying of what others think of you.
Worrying creates negativity
and concern where it didn't exist before. Your thoughts of worry are all self fabricated. You really don't know what others are thinking about you. When you worry it is an indication of low self-esteem and self-doubt. Love yourself 
and come to embrace the fact that no one else in this world is exactly like you. You are unique and special in that uniqueness, as is everyone else. Take that ball of modeling clay and create a life of inexhaustible positivity which is not weighed down with worry but spiraling onward and upward into your own beautiful masterpiece of life.
By Roxan Gould
as if it were a ball of modeling clay which you are always shaping and developing according to your thoughts and wishes? Have you ever considered that all of your thoughts and wishes can almost always be positive? Imagine your life being almost always positive simply because you chose it to be so. The way I see it, you are evolving from moment to moment and you have the power to manifest your life into exactly what you want it to be. Your life is a very creative process at work. Worrying about what others think about you blocks this creative process and stops you in your evolutionary tracks. It is a waste of your time and of your precious life. Worrying is 'de'constructive. Focusing on developing your life is 'con'structive and very much worth your time.Having been a fashion model most of my life, I know first hand how the modeling world is riddled with rejection
. Models worry all the time what others think about them. They worry they are not good enough and that people won't like them. This detracts from their personality and style. It wears on them and distracts them and takes their energy. Some models will try to change who they are and become who they think others want them to be. When they do this they have just cloaked themselves with falsity and pretense. Now people have a reason not to like them and so the models have just proved themselves correct.Why should we stop worrying about what others think of us? Because worrying only exacerbates the situation; once you start worrying you start to see all sorts of things to worry about. The worrying then starts to escalate with no end in sight. It is up to you to control your worrying and you do this by directing your attention to what you think is best about a situation. This will strength you, empower you and stop the worrying. Also, having a true sense and deep feeling of gratitude will diminish your worrying of what others think of you.
Worrying creates negativity
and concern where it didn't exist before. Your thoughts of worry are all self fabricated. You really don't know what others are thinking about you. When you worry it is an indication of low self-esteem and self-doubt. Love yourself and come to embrace the fact that no one else in this world is exactly like you. You are unique and special in that uniqueness, as is everyone else. Take that ball of modeling clay and create a life of inexhaustible positivity which is not weighed down with worry but spiraling onward and upward into your own beautiful masterpiece of life.By Roxan Gould
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